Things I would say in a perfect world (if they'd make a difference):

1) "I wish I'd known...then maybe I would have understood why you did what you did and I wouldn't have blamed myself all these years."

2) "Quit yelling at the cat, it's not going to do any good."

3) "I love you even when I don't say it."

4) "Go away and stay away."

5) "You're right."

6) "You're wrong."

7) "Leave my family alone."

8) "Love me."

9) "Just tell the truth."

10) "Stop using the drugs and booze - you're going to kill yourself."

OK - it's time to think...if you could say ten things that would make a difference in a perfect world, what would they be? Tag yourselves, peoples.